A catcall is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The purity myth is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The fetishization of female purity in a world where catcalls are an acceptable form of communication telegraphs one thing very clearly:

“Women, stop sexualizing yourselves—that’s our job, and you’re taking all the fun out of it.”

The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise it’s “sluttiness,” and sluttiness is agency and agency is threatening.

Female ‘Purity’ is Bullshit”, by Lindy West (at jezebel.com)

(via clinicallyundressed)

mallaidha replied to your post: Why is it like super cold today? It’s May. Why?

It’s been 45 degrees here the past three days. I don’t understand.

Neither do I

but it sucks

missmatie:

peanuhbutta:

This is realllllllllly weird lmao

This is really NORMAL.
Except we never see it-so it is terrifying and uncomfortable when it happens.
(Mostly because people would laugh or be unkind)

I own a sex shop. Once a woman bled on our chair during an interview. She was horrified and felt ashamed because it was in some way unprofessional. We weren’t bothered. We said ‘what better place to work on being ok with your body than at a feminist sex shop?’
Bleeding is normal and dealing with it is one of the most pervasive ways women are complicit in their silence.

Some men bleed too. How would you react to that? For many men who are Trans the act of bleeding is a security threat.

Fuck off with your lolz.

(via lipstick-feminists)

Why is it like super cold today?

It’s May.

Why?

museumuesum:

Martin Creed
Work No. 890: DON’T WORRY, 2008
Neon lights, 50.5 x 500 x 6 cm

museumuesum:

Martin Creed

Work No. 890: DON’T WORRY, 2008

Neon lights, 50.5 x 500 x 6 cm

museumuesum:

Jun Kaneko

Untitled, Dango, 2003, Hand-built glazed ceramic, 85 x 30 x 16 inches

Untitled, Dango, 2004, Hand-built glazed ceramic, 72 x 32.5 x 17.5 inches

Untitled, Dango, 2013, Hand-built glazed ceramic, 85 x 25 x 16 inches

Untitled, Dango, 2000, Hand-built glazed ceramic, 88 x 25 x 17 inches
Untitled, Dango, 2012, Hand-built glazed ceramic, 88 x 32 x 21 inches
Untitled, Dango, 2006, Hand-built glazed ceramic, 78 x 45 x 25 inches
Untitled, Dango, 2002, Hand-built glazed ceramic, 83 x 27 x 19 inches
Untitled, Dango, 1989, Hand-built glazed ceramic, 67 x 32 x 21 inches

I.
When I think of your heart, I think of a snakebite to
the chest.

II.
Uncountable lifetimes ago there was an empire in
Egypt. We burned the libraries. We destroyed the
temples. Everything that was beautiful then is lost
to us now.

III.
These days, poetry is the only language I know how
to speak. But you speak anthropology. You speak
hieroglyphs. You spend your life studying things I
only bury in metaphors.

IV.
When I think of my heart, I think of stone tombs.

V.
Last year, they found Cleopatra’s palace sunk deep
in the Mediterranean sea. But anything they could
learn from the ruins of her home is not worth empty-
ing oceans for.

Cleopatra’s Palace, Or Why I Didn’t Call You Back, Clementine von Radics (via clementinevonradics)

theambiguoushero:

I am vengeance.

I am the night.

I

am

image

(via adventuresinnerdland)

There are times when those eyes inside your brain stare back at you.
Charles Bukowski, What Matters Most is How Well You Walk Through the Fire (via dulcetdecember)

(via orangeeelephant)

signed—craterface:

So I decided tonight I wanted to see first hand what these “men’s right’s activists” have to say for themselves. I found a forum at standyourground.com and needless to say this is only a small chunk of the absolutely ridiculous, misogynistic, harmful thinking this site has to offer.

First of all, these men have no idea what feminism really is. Feminism is women trying to be equal it’s not a crazy, misandric and oppressive movement designed to eliminate men. Demanding equality is their natural right. Just because girls don’t date you (probably because you’re misogynistic and believe you are superior to women) doesn’t mean that feminism is the source of your “depression and loneliness.” That’s all your fault, man. Sorry to break it to you. Perhaps try treating women as your equals and not as your enemy. 

And don’t get me started on the “men’s oppression list” claiming how 99.999% of American casualties in war are men. HMMM I WONDER WHY. Because it wasn’t until recently that women were allowed on the battlefield because men LIKE YOU do not believe they are qualified to be in the military because they’re just going to scream rape the first chance they get. 

Because you know, women don’t actually get raped in the military. They just say they do because they’re crazy feminazis trying to take all your glorious power and “equality” away from you. 

And you’re right, so right, women have not been oppressed all throughout history. they’ve had the luxury of sitting home, uneducated, used only for sex and domesticity. How lucky are they? Men had to do all the hard work. They had to build everything, they had to take political office, they had sooooo much hard work to do while the girls just sat around and did nothing. 

Wait, why did they do nothing? Oh yeah, that’s right, because men wouldn’t fucking let them do anything. 

These forums just really annoyed me because these men have absolutely no idea what the word feminism means nor do they know what equality means. They’re angry that they aren’t treated like royalty simply for being a man. 

As a man, I am disgusted by other men like this. I cannot even begin to cover everything that they discuss within these forums, and I strongly urge people to actually go on these forums and in a CIVILIZED manner, talk some sense into these people. Educate them on what feminism really means. What equality really means. Offer statistics and sources. Don’t stoop to their level and become “misandric,” because fighting fire with fire is never successful. 

I really urge people to be aware of this so called “movement” and keep the word ‘Feminism’ pure and without the negative connotation these people have attached to it. 

I’m just wrong. All the time.

Everything is wrong or rude or both.

And apparently my box of books for donation is a great place to pile newspapers and it’s fine to move my things without telling me yup good.

I'm a 21 yr old in college who has no idea where her life is going. I'm a New Yorker and a Hufflepuff and a surrogate mother to my friends, a vegetarian, a lover of all things bookish and odd and sometimes even creepy. I like pretty shiny colorful anythings. Maybe you do too. And hedgehogs, and cows, and sphynx cats, and knitting and yea.

view archive



About

Feeling Blue?

Ask Away